A routine moment of crowdwork at a Coldplay concert went viral last week when a couple tried to avoid the spotlight after they were caught hugging on the jumbotron.

In her essay about the recent exposure of an affair on a Coldplay concert’s kiss cam, Ms. Schulman exhibits a common and troubling misunderstanding of the distinction between shame and humiliation.

The video, which showed the pair swaying to music at the concert before trying to hide, gained millions of views on social media.

Astronomer's CEO and its Head of HR have now both resigned from the tech company a week after they were caught on camera together at a Coldplay concert. Kristin Cabot is no longer with Astronomer upon her own resignation,